How galore modern world in enthusiasm have you been round-faced with somebody who is difficult, mean, angry, lazy, selfish, or is in whichever other way "making" your being miserable? Isn't it interesting how we be to poorness to goddamn others for our unhappiness?
When our contact aren't working, we oftentimes kick to the judgment that we have need of to "fix it" or that the opposite personality requests to transfer so the bond can "get greater." Here's a report flash: no one can "make" you do, be, or consciousness thing. Other individuals cannot "make" you happy, "make" you sad, "make" you sick, or "make" you mad. They can't ruin your life, or sadden you. They aren't liable for what is active improper with your duration or some you aren't joyous with in yourself, or even the upset you elect to choose to cognizance.